Beyond Toddlers: 6 Carry-On Essentials for Traveling with Older Kids

While much travel advice focuses on toddlers, flying with older children and pre-teens presents its own unique set of challenges. Their needs shift from constant supervision to a desire for independence and more sophisticated entertainment. A successful long-haul flight with school-aged kids requires a carry-on that respects their growing maturity. Here are six essentials tailored for this age group.
First, upgrade the snack game. While they may be past the picky toddler stage, older kids still appreciate good food. Pack more substantial snacks like protein bars, trail mix, beef jerky, and their favorite chips or cookies. A larger reusable water bottle is also a must, as they need to stay just as hydrated as younger children.
Entertainment becomes more personal and tech-focused. This is the one non-negotiable. Ensure their tablet or phone is loaded with age-appropriate movies, games, and music they’ve chosen themselves. A good pair of headphones (perhaps noise-canceling) is crucial for their enjoyment and for your peace. A gripping chapter book or a challenging puzzle book can provide a welcome screen break.
Comfort is still king, even if they won’t admit it. A sleek travel pillow and a lightweight, stylish hoodie or travel blanket are far more likely to be used than a bulky stuffed animal. While they are less prone to spills, a spare T-shirt and socks are still a wise addition to the carry-on for any unforeseen mishaps or simply to freshen up before landing.
While they may be able to voice their ailments, a first-aid kit is still essential. Include pain relievers for adults/older children, motion sickness medication, and bandages. Empower them by giving them responsibility for their own documents, like a boarding pass, but keep passports in your secure travel wallet. A powerful personal power bank for their own devices is a must to prevent any “my phone is dead” crises.
Get your older child involved in the packing process. Give them a checklist and their own small backpack or section of the carry-on to manage. Letting them choose their own books, snacks, and pre-load their own devices gives them a sense of ownership and responsibility, reducing the likelihood of complaints during the trip.